If hating yourself hasn't worked, why don't you try loving yourself and see what happens?

Wanna know the secret to the good life?

It is LOVING YOURSELF.

And not in the horrible arrogant way that you fear.

But in a way that;

- You love and trust yourself and know that you are worthy of love and good things.

- You don't tolerate toxic people, relationships, careers or situations because you know that you are worthy and deserving of more.

- You don't spend your life people-pleasing and using people as validation vending machines.

- You prioritise and organise your life based on what actually matters to you.

- You are kind to yourself in what you say to and how you treat your body.

- You cultivate desires and ambitions because we know we are worthy of success.

- You trust in your abilities and know that you can do hard things.

When you cultivate solid self-worth and love, life doesn't just get easier, it gets a hell of a lot more enjoyable and exciting too.

I'm not a unicorn. I am no different to you.

If I can learn how to love myself then you can too.